To me, education is the foundation upon which a successful society is built. A good education offers benefits you can’t always truly measure, and a bad education or a lack of education can limit a person for their entire lives.
I feel strongly that a quality public education is a right, not a privilege, and I believe that public schools have the potential to provide that if they are properly funded and if they rely on an organizational method and curriculum that is designed specifically to serve the children as the #1 priority. I do not, however, think that this is always how schools are run.
It’s unfortunate, because I think that the widespread existence of poor and mediocre public schools is what causes parents to seek alternatives for their kids, which I fully understand and believe is admirable — my priority as a parent is that my children get the very best education possible. But that leads to parents enrolling their children in charter schools or private schools which then causes money to be diverted away from the public schools, which then causes those schools to become less and less effective. It’s a bad cycle.
I’ve probably already said it one million times, but the thing that has had the single biggest impact on our lives since moving to England is the kids’ new school. By far and away the school has had the most positive affect on all our lives, more than any of the other changes and experiences we’ve had.
When we lived in D.C., my kids went to public school. We liked our schools a lot; there were dedicated teachers and nice classrooms and everything was just fine. We felt like the kids were getting a pretty good education, although we definitely had complaints. The kids really didn’t LOVE school, but I thought that was normal — what kids LOVE school???
Here in England though, my kids go to an Independent school (which would be called a private school in the U.S.) and it has been eye-opening. Because here, my kids actually, seriously LOVE school. The school days are absolutely designed with children in mind — as I’ve said, there’s far, far more activity in their days and weeks — and the school community is really strong. There are tons of extracurricular activities, they have far more responsibility and independence, and school here is just FUN. Because they look forward to going to school now, they are getting better grades and learning more than they ever did before we moved. There’s no downside.
Frankly, though, they only go to this school because Matt’s company pays for it — it costs more than we could probably realistically afford on our own. Although having now seen what a difference it makes in all our lives, I would bend over backwards to try to provide this to them if his company didn’t pay. What’s more discouraging is that the school here actually costs about HALF as much as a comparable school in America, so it would be even harder to make it work when we move back home. It’s really, really disheartening to think of eventually leaving this school and going back to the way things were before.
But, on the bright side, I don’t think that the things that make our school in England so amazing are actually based on the school’s budget. The way the days are organized and the focus on what’s best for the children in terms of scheduling, curriculum, activity, and community have very little to do with funding and very much to do with priorities. All of what we love about our school here is achievable without spending almost any extra money, to be honest.
I don’t have solutions for everything that ails so many public schools in the U.S., but I do have some pretty strong ideas now about how small changes could be made that have nothing to do with money that would make any school – every school – a better experience for a vast majority of the students. And I think that’s a goal worth working toward. In fact, I’m writing a book about it.
I’d love to hear what you like and don’t like about the schools your kids attend, what types of schools they are, and your thoughts on everything I’ve said about our school here. And please, if you work in education, share your views from that perspective. Or if you know anyone who does, please share this post with them. The more points of view I can learn about, the better!
As parents, we all have a strong interest in doing what’s best for our kids, and improving schools can only help us all. Change often starts at a grassroots level…let’s get the ball rolling.